Co-parenting finances — organized in one neutral timeline.
Track shared expenses, reimbursements, and support with time-stamped entries and clean totals.
Built for clarity — not conflict.
How ParentPayr works
A simple flow that keeps everything calm and verifiable.
Log it once — category, amount, date, notes, receipts if needed.
Everything rolls into a monthly view so you’re not hunting through texts or spreadsheets.
Know what’s owed, what’s reimbursable, and what’s been paid — with consistent math.
Export a clean PDF/CSV anytime. If enabled, trigger payment from the same workflow.
See the real screens
A quick walkthrough of the exact flow: track → totals → exports
(and payments if enabled).
A live, automatically netted snapshot — bank connected, totals updated, and the month ready to settle.
- Bank connected for direct parent-to-parent payments
- Gross child support + month + due date in one place
- Category reimbursements (education, healthcare, advances)
- Automatic net totals (who actually owes what)
- Live updates as either co-parent adds expenses
- Lock & Pay trigger to finalize and settle the month
Why this matters
This is the screen that ends the “wait… what do we actually owe?” conversation.
Instead of debating texts or spreadsheets, ParentPayr nets reimbursements automatically and ties the total to a specific month — then lets you lock it and pay it.
Proof, on demand
When you need a record outside ParentPayr, download a clean, time-stamped PDF or CSV of everything — expenses, reimbursements, and payments.
Sample PDF export
A readable, court-friendly summary: dates, categories, splits, reimbursements, and totals — formatted for clarity, not persuasion.
Sample CSV export
A spreadsheet export with audit IDs, timestamps, categories, splits, and payment markers — ideal for filtering, reconciliation, or professional review.
ParentPayr doesn’t interpret data or make claims — it preserves an accurate, neutral record you can share when needed.
Can I use ParentPayr solo?
Yes. ParentPayr has a 1-user option for situations where the other co-parent isn’t ready (or isn’t helpful). You can still track shared expenses, keep notes factual, and export a clean record anytime.
Why the 1-user option exists
Because “we’ll track it later” usually turns into “we never tracked it.” Solo mode gives you a calm, consistent record you can reference — and share when needed.
If your co-parent joins later, you can match accounts with a Match ID and move into the full 2-user experience.
What You Can Do with ParentPayr
Everything is built around clarity: track → totals → payments → exports. No “gotcha” tools. No drama incentives.
Feature overview
Everything is built around clarity: track → totals → payments → exports. No “gotcha” tools. No drama incentives.
Sign Up in Under 5 Minutes
- Start fast. Stay organized.
- Create your account instantly.
- Up and running fast.
Invite-Only Co-Parent Setup
- You control who sees.
- Invite only, always.
- Private until invited.
Expense Logging
- Every expense, clearly tracked.
- Log it. Done.
- Track every dollar.
Custom Categories
- Your expenses, your rules.
- Built around your life.
- Customize what you track.
Add & Track Expenses
- Add it. Track it.
- Everything in one place.
- Always up to date.
Flexible Splits
- Split costs your way.
- Not always 50/50.
- Fair, flexible sharing.
Send or Request Payments
- Pay or get paid.
- Direct parent-to-parent.
- Matched to expenses.
Current Month & Payment Tracking
- See what’s owed.
- See what’s paid.
- Nothing gets missed.
Real-Time Sync
- Instant updates.
- No refresh needed.
- Always in sync.
Due Date Reminders
- Never miss payments.
- Automatic nudges.
- Deadlines handled.
Audit Log
- Who did what.
- When it happened.
- No more disputes.
Email, SMS & Push
- Alerts your way.
- Email, text, push.
- Nothing slips through.
Receipts with Photos
- Upload proof instantly.
- Photos tied to expenses.
- Everything documented.
Court-Ready PDFs
- Professional reports.
- Time-stamped records.
- Ready to file.
And So Much More
- Built to grow.
- Tools that scale.
- Ready for anything.
Some features require Plus or Premium.
Who ParentPayr is for
A quick gut-check so the right people say “finally”… and the wrong people bounce.
Who ParentPayr is for
ParentPayr is built for co-parents who want clarity month-by-month — receipts, totals, and a clean timeline. No scorekeeping. No “gotcha” tools.
- You want less back-and-forth
- You prefer receipts and totals over arguments
- You want a neutral, time-stamped record
- You want clarity month-by-month
- “Argument hunters” looking for a fight
- People who want the app to take sides
- Anyone trying to “win” instead of settle
- Folks who refuse to agree on basic facts
ParentPayr is a neutral record-keeping tool — not legal advice or enforcement.
Pick a plan based on how much structure you want
The workflow stays the same — you just unlock more capability (collaboration, receipts, payments, and advanced tools).
FAQs
Quick answers to the most common “before I click Get Started” questions.
Can I use ParentPayr without my co-parent?
Yes! You can start using ParentPayr solo.
Even if your co-parent says they’ll “never argue about money” or “I’d never take you to court,” things can change. ParentPayr helps you create a paper trail now — so if things get messy later, you’re already covered. You can track, organize, and report every expense on your own.
They can always join later... but your records should start today.
What if my co-parent never joins?
You can still track every payment, log every expense, and generate court-ready reports — all by yourself.
ParentPayr is built to protect and organize your side of the story, even if the other parent doesn’t participate.
If your co-parent joins later, you’ll both benefit from shared syncing and expense approval, but you never need to wait on them to stay organized and protected.
Where do I use the code I got from this site?
Download the app and select “Sign Up” on the Login Page.
Enter your contact info and activation code.
That’s it — you’ll unlock your plan and all features right away.
If you hit any snags, double-check that you're using the same email you used for your purchase (that’s the #1 gotcha).
Still stuck? You can reach us anytime via email:
connect [at] parentpayr [dot] com
(Just replace the brackets — your message will land in the right place!)
Can I download court-ready reports?
Yes — Plus and Premium plans let you export both PDF and CSV reports. You can download monthly summaries, categorized reimbursements, or full-year records with just a few taps — perfect for court, mediation, or personal documentation.
Users on the Basic plan can export CSV files for simplified tracking.
Is my financial information safe?
Yes — your data is protected with bank-level encryption, and we never sell or share your personal information.
Your privacy, and your child’s wellbeing, are always our top priority.
If you choose to use Plaid to send support payments inside the app (available in Plus and Premium), those transactions are routed securely through the provider’s own platforms — ParentPayr never stores your bank login or account details.
You’re always in control — and your financial safety is never compromised.
What payment methods do you accept?
We accept all major credit and debit cards, as well as Google Wallet and Apple Pay. All payments are securely processed and include an emailed receipt.
Can I add more than two users?
The Premium plan includes View-Only Family Accounts for up to 3 extra people — ideal for attorneys, mediators, or trusted family members.
You stay in control, and they can see (but not change) your records.
Need more access beyond that? Reach out and we’ll help tailor a setup to your situation.
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes — you’re free to cancel your subscription at any time, right from your account settings.
There are no contracts, no hidden fees, and no awkward phone calls.
Your data stays secure, and you can reactivate your plan later if needed.
Need to change or cancel your subscription?
If you purchased your subscription inside the ParentPayr app, all adjustments must be made within the app itself. Simply open the app, tap Menu → Settings → Manage Subscription. From there, you can upgrade, downgrade, or cancel your subscription with ease.
If you purchased your subscription directly from our website, please email us your request by clicking the corresponding action:
- Upgrade
- Cancel
We’ll respond promptly and take care of it right away.
(Pro Tip: Be sure to email us from the same email address associated with your account!)
Is ParentPayr the same as ParentPay?
No. ParentPayr is a co-parenting expense and payment tracking app for families. ParentPay is a UK-based school payment system. The services are not affiliated.
What if I want to talk to a human?
We get it — sometimes you just want real help from a real person.
You can reach us anytime via our Contact page, or email us directly:
connect [at] parentpayr [dot] com
(Just replace the brackets — your message will land in the right place!)
We pride ourselves on personal, prompt responses — typically within one business day. No bots. No runaround. Just a dedicated team ready to help.
Ready for calmer co-parenting finances?
Neutral records. Clear totals. Less back-and-forth.